It has been my experience over time that a good woman really can hold a man by the balls and get away with it… Just not in the way that you think.

I never gave too much thought to men’s balls before Master. Sure, some men like them played with or tended to during a good BJ, but really, what else were they there for? But at some point in our relationship it became almost a subconscious habit to gently massage his balls. Especially when we’re just laying there watching a movie or relaxing. It definitely relaxes him like nothing else and it almost always puts him to sleep. His theory is that if more men received testicular massage there would be no war. I have to say I agree completely.

So lady readers of mine, give it a try. Next time you’re lying in bed watching TV, gently cup his balls and just make a motion with your fingers like they’re doing a wave. Be gentle, but don’t be afraid to squeeze very lightly. Treat them like soft boiled eggs. Roll them around in your hand delicately and at a relaxed pace. It’s not about sex… just about melting him